Down a Gravel Road in Serbia

  Two years ago today, I found myself riding a motorcycle extremely nervously down a gravel road in Serbia. Gravel roads are a motorcyclist’s nightmare – especially the deep ones.  Even more so for a motorcyclist with short legs and riding with some...

Imprints of Childhood

Where we all began   We were all once children, and psychology teaches us that our experiences as children informed a huge chunk of our personality and behaviours today as adults. Despite that, many people do not realise where certain unwanted characteristics,...

Is Your Mind Blocking Your Fertility?

  Many women have an extremely stressful time trying to get pregnant.  If this is you, then you are certainly NOT ALONE in your fertility journey! When a child is seen as the next logical and emotional step in a relationship or a marriage, but the pregnancy tests...

What is your Professional Identity?

Many people come to therapy with important questions around PROFESSIONAL identity.  These questions may be triggered by a crisis at work i.e., sudden redundancy or a feeling of being unfairly ‘managed out of the business,’ a horrible boss, a difficult...

Cultivating The Space Between

How To Make Relationships Work!   Often, in Imago Relationship Therapy, we talk a lot about the space between a couple.  It is that space which walks into the counselling office, and it is that space with which an Imago couples counsellor works.  ...

The Importance of Creating Space

In life, we must create SPACE for the things we want.    These things can be as diverse as a new job, new clients, new relationship, new trousers (!) or new plants in the garden. For any and all of those things, there is an element of clearing and making space...